Submissive Guys: What Kind of Man Are You?

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Submissive Men : What kind of man are you?

The central rule in dating, meeting and hooking up is: be honest. So much easier said than done for many men.

What are you like physically: strong, muscular, skinny, mushy, obese. There’s no value in fibbing - she’ll know the moment she sees you. And being dishonest is about as far from being submissive as you can get.

What are you like mentally: do you spend your free time with the television as your best friend. Do you read anything: fantasy novels, horror fiction, literary prose ? That may seem trivial but people often find common ground in small things. And for some people intellectual and aesthetic pursuits aren’t trivial.

Are you physically active, athletic? Do you do good works/ Are you politically active?

A woman needs a reason to want to meet you. It isn’t because you’ll “do anything.” She’s already had offer from a thousand strangers, knows not to take it seriously and isn’t looking for a doormat with arms and legs anyway.

Learn how to describe your qualities in your profiles. It only takes a few words. Even less than this entry.

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hello. about me ,. i could describe myself as psycho but then i won’t be doing myself favours. ha ha. ok , i’m passive. im a killer.. very funny. loyal. strong. slight yet athletic build, like a top jocky. mixed race. can be frigid. be 29 soon.

I AM A SUBMISSIVE MAN,AND I SUPPOSE THAT IS WHY I HAVE NEVER BEEN SUCCESSFUL WITH SINGLE GIRLS.THEY WANT REAL MEN,BUT THAT’S NOT IN MY NATURE.I ACKNOWLEDGE WOMEN’S SUPERIORITY.BEING ONLY CHILD MY MOTHER MADE ME AWARE OF THAT.I FEEL TOO THAT I AM TOO HOMOSEXUALLY INCLINED TO EVER BE A REAL MAN.THE SIGHT OF THE FEMALE GENITALIA,TO BE POLITE,HAVE ALWAYS TROUBLED ME,AS THE SIGHT OF THE NAKED FEMALE,GENERALLY.THE MALE NUDE THOUGH CAUSES GREAT EROTICISM IN ME.I WISH TO BE PUNISHED BY A LADY,FOR MY LADIES TOILET VOYEURISM.THIS WAS MY REVENGE ON THOSE GIRLS WHO HAD ORIGINALLY TREATED ME CRUELLY.AT A TIME,WHEN I DID NOT REALIZE HOW GAY I COULD BE.IN OTHER WORDS,WHEN I THOUGHT I COULD STILL BE A REAL MAN.THOSE YOUNG LADIES,SOON SHOWED AND TOLD ME OTHERWISE,OF COURSE.I WISH ALSO TO BE SODOMIZED BY A LADY.AS I FEEL THE NEED TO BE HUMILIATED FOR FAILING TO BE A REAL MAN.AND HOMOSEXUALLY I HAVE NOT YET REACHED THE STAGE WHEN I WOULD BEND TO ANOTHER MALE.I WOULD OBEY ANY COMMAND A LADY MADE,AND SUBMIT TO ANYTHING,DEMANDED OF ME.AS I CONSIDER MYSELF UNWORTHY TO BE CALLED A MAN.NEITHER DID MY LATE PARENTS,ESPECIALLY MY FATHER.AND MY MOTHER WAS DISAPPOINTED,AS SHE TOLD ME, THAT HER MIDDLE-AGED WIMP OF A SON,HAD FAILED TO MAKE HER A GRANDMOTHER.

If your mother made you feel inferior then she was a wicked, evil woman.

Being gay hardly makes a guy less of a man.

Hello you all,

This is obviously not a scientific research on what type of men are submissive but I would liket to share with you what drives me and what type of submissive I am.

First the physical part; I’m in my fourties, I’m 6”1” tall and just under 200 lbs. I’m in a good shape but I would say that women would call it average (no six pack but also no bud belly). I work out (cycling & swimming) and I’m healthy.

Professionally I’m an executive at a large international company, I travel the world and I’m responsible for many employees and large budgets. I hardly watch television (for several reasons, me being a submissive is one of them) and I do read a lot, mostly legal thrillers or semi-fiction thrillers. I read a lot when I’m travelling.

On top of that I love Jazz and Latin lounge music and I’m building an impressive collection with that. You can find me in Jazz Clubs regularly. I also sail (hoby-cat) and I’m trying to learn kite-surfing (although I need some more gym time to get that under control.

So what type of a submissive am I. Well I’m together with my wife for almost 25 years (high school sweethearts) but it wasn’t untill 10 years ago I came “out of the closet” with my submissive feeling.

I had those feelings since I was 11 years old, mainly drive by a harmless TV series in the country I was born that was about a clown traveling the world. Everywhere he came thing were up-side-down. In one episode he visited the Middle East where he was in a castle with a Sheik. This was however, not a man but a woman and her harem was male. The guy waved palm leaves and brought her food and bowed and walked backwards. This sexualy arroused me and that night I masturbated for the first time imagining I was one of the servants.

When I was 18 I explored this fantasy with Pro-Dommes. This seemed to be great but in stead of a submissive male I became a masochist topping from the bottom. I stopped that because it didn’t satisfy my submissive needs anymore and two years later I finally brought up the courage to tell my wife all about it.

This was obviously not the best part of our time together. But because I opened up my wife started to be interested in the subject. I bought her books about loving female authority and other topics and after a while we decided to shop for fetish clothes in order to visit play parties. We met like-minded people and my wife (not yet confident in her new status as dominant) met other women that had, surprisingly, similar stories. She met also a male dom that learned her the techniques of BDSM and soon we were playing together.

That sounds fantastic you might think. Both that was not the case. I had trouble in seeing my wife as the Mistress and I felt back in the masochistic topping from the bottom scenario. At that point my wife started to ask herself, what’s in it for me. After 2 years of playing both our appetite disappeared and we went back to a normal vanilla life.

During that period I realized that this was a part of me that I could not do without but even the most ideal scenario didn’t work. Apperantly something was missing. At that point I read Elise Sutton’s book about Female Authoraty. The stories of real couples fascenated me and suddenly I knew. We needed a Female Led Relationship.

Over the years I got more and more interested in Chastity and Cuckolding too and since my wifes trust in me with my ProDomme past was not great I finally decided to buy a CB 3000 and I gave my wife that as a present together with Elise Suttons book and a letter in which I offered her control of my sexuality and submissiveness on her terms.

This meant that my wife now saw advantages. My chemistry completely changed within weeks after being put in Chastity and suddenly there was only one Goddess in my life; my wife. I wanted to do everything for her and slowly but steady she started to make use of that. It sounds like a cliche but her involving me much more (if not solely) in the chores arround the house made everthing sexual. She learned how to ad days to my chastity as punishment and suddenly she did not need to handle whips and chains to get stuff done from me. I became sort of an ideal husband. Our relationship never was better and I could now easily accept my wife as my superior. That was 5 years ago.

Four years ago we met a couple in a club and the discussion suddenly was about cuckolding. It was brought up by the lady of the other party. Cuckolding was another long lasting fantasy of me but since my wife was so clear on monogamy I never brought it up. At home we discussed further about that and since I was in chastity the thought was very attractive to my wife.

It wasn’t for long that we were browsing AFF together for nice men for her to have sex with. Her first experience was great and that was the beginning of our cuckold relationship.

Today I’m still in a Female Led Relationship (24/7) with not a lot of whips and chains but clear hierachical positions. My wife alows me sex with her on my birthday and on our anniversary which happen to be about 6 months a part. She has one steady lover that she dates every other week and a few (mainly young) studs for accasional sex.

Finally I found my destiny. Since I was 11 it took almost 25 years to figure this out and I’m so happy. Also my wife is happier then ever. She likes me as her obedient, caring and loving husband and her self esteem boosted as she figured out that a lot of guys find her very attractive and want to have sex with her. The CB gives her confidence too that I’ll remain faithfull to her and the device keeps me submissive too.

Every month we go to a BDSM club and since she was never in favour of administering physical punishment she became friends with other Mistresses that are happy to do that for her. For that my wife keeps a score book where she marks when I need correction by physical punishment or by prolonged chastity.

I hope that this gives a good idea of what kind of submissive I am!

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I want to be the perfect caretaker. I am an alpha male. I get things done. 5’6”,handsome. 209 pounds. 20 pounds overweight. I have man boobs as I used to be fat but lost 130 pounds. I bike, play tennis, and love adult conversation. I am available to be someone’s property. I loved richards story. My goal is to sleep on th efloor next to my Queens bed to be near her and keep her safe. She can entertain herself with me as she sees fit. I will make her glad she chose me with my vicious devotion. ANd I am healthy. Mentally and physically. I want to clean the kitchen while my lady sleeps with whomever in the next room. i will serve breakfast. I will make her smile with my touch. Someone please email me with a time and place for my intro and training. I just want to be close to my lady, to be near her. To beallowed in her inner circle, to put nail polish on her. I will have whatever physical arangement she desires. I am normally endowed. My mother wanted a girl and let me know it. I never want to have intercourse. Unless I am commanded, then I can get rock hard for as long as you like. My dream is to be put to work by my mistress. Tomorrow at noon too soon?

I am a 54-year old male who is divorced and find myself relaxing by using feminine douche, tampons, hair remover lotion and keeping nail polish on my toenails. At present I am fully dressed as a woman, including having a fresh tampon in my love canal, panties with a sanitary napkin, coffee color pantyhose, three inch heels, black bra with my silicone breast inserts glued on, skirt and a pull over sweater. I am also wearing foundation, face powder, eyeliner, eye shadow,mascara, blush with red lip gloss and earrings.

IU am a 57 year old bi male. I am happily married to a woman for 30 years and have 2 grown children. She soesnt know that I am Bi or that I am very submissive. I have hidden it for eyars and will always do that. However I have cheated on my wife ( but not in the last 20 years), with a dom or domme or two. Before we were married I also had a few encounters with being a submissive Bi. Now I fantasize all the time about it and would like to act the fantasies out. ( I am a little affraid that she will find out, and I wouldnt want that to happen though). I would be a very good submissive slave, but it would have to be part tiem and very discreet

The only kind of Domme you’ll find who is willing to discreetly help a man cheat on his wife is a professional dominatrix. You don’t really have anything to offer a woman who wants to do it for fun. Really.

While this is a very solid and accurate article there is one thing that I (respectfully) disagree with… That the profile description need not be any longer than the article itself.

My own profile on all of the “appropriate” sites is quite detailed as I get into who and what I am as a dominant as well as who and what I am beyond this.

I cannot agree more with the importance in honesty. It is appalling how many will blatantly lie when describing themselves - and not just physically. This wastes everyone’s time as clearly the truth comes out should a meeting actually happen.

That said, it seems to me that many will lie in order to achieve some email exchanges and must be satisfied with this.

I’m a submissive male and as far back as i can remember I have wanted to be owned by a woman. Now at 45 yrs of age I am still to make this thought that5 drives me, a reality. I have no desire to use paraphernalia or dress up for a session of BDSM. I intend to live a normal life but with a woman who knows that she is deeply loved and revered. Yes I crave to perform base acts of devotion to her/for her and my own selfish lust but I want these acts to be spontaneous (at her whim) I am begining to fear that i will never come to know this life. I think that in the future it will be more easily achievable as society slowly changes but its not changing fast enough for me. I have channelled my energies into writing. I now have a Female Supremacy adventure novel published (The Scars of Obsession)and as I am here writing its sequel i am finding myself making a contingencey plan…If I don’t find my one true owner within a year from now, i’ll venture further to find her/rescue her from some third world inner city, poverty stricken domain and lead her into a very unexpected new life…maybe this is why I was put on this earth to find Love in this way and transform both our lives. Does this sound crazy? Desperate? Ill-fated? I don’t know, what I do know is that at 45 I am getting to be crazed and desperate to make my ideal lifestyle come true.

Your feelings?

Please share your feelings about Submissive Guys: What Kind of Man Are You?.
Thanks,
Richard

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