Approaching a Dominant
As a submissive person are you sure what you can offer a Domme and do your needs match hers?
How to Write a Kinky Personal Ad
Tips and advice on what to not put into a BDSM personal ad when searching for the right Domme.
How Do I Meet a Domme
Lady Julia's advice on how a male submissive might compose his personal ad.
Human to Human : People Aren't Fantasies
Dominant women aren't going to be seduced by your fantasies. They are people looking to meet a person.
Fetishist vs. Submissive : Muddy Thinking?
The distinction between someone who wants to be a slave and is just wanting his fetishes acted out isn't simple or easy.
Looking for Submissive Men Can Be Stressful
Dominant women using the web to meet men may have many frustrating, exhausting encounters.
Femdom Chat Etiquette
Good manners when talking to a dominant woman using an instant messaging or chat client.
Courtship of the Dominant Woman
Getting to know her and learning how to approach her.
How Ms. MacComb Met Her Husband
How one dominant woman found the right man using the web.
Fake Femdom Blogs
Blogs written by submissive men pretending to be dominant, sadistic women.
Forum Phonies
Beware of bad advice, fake personas, false information and self-delusion on Femdom and BDSM discussion forums.
Submissive Men : Interact Online
Participate in Femdom Forums, comment on Femdom Blogs. Learn how to talk about BDSM, D/s and S&M.
Wooing a Domme Online
Tips for approaching dominant women on forums and alternative dating sites.
Unrealistic Expectations
Why submissives and mistresses who sound good on CollarMe, Alt.com and online dating sites don't prove matches when you actually meet them in person.
Admit Your Needs
Submissive men: be honest and admit your own needs, desires in your personal ads.
Real Submissives
Real, true, genuine, actual, factual, honest, 100% certified submissive men.
Writing to a Domme : 10 Guidelines
How to introduce yourself to a dominant woman that you wish to be your Mistress and to serve.
Worthless Femdom Ebooks
Submissive men don't waste your money on online courses and ebooks.
She Never Replies
You email a Domme that you'd like to become your Mistress. She never writes back. What to do?
Writing to a Dominant Woman
Seeking a Domme or Mistress? Be civil and courteous. Don't be lazy or sloppy.
Fake Mistresses
Beware phony dommes, bogus dominatrices who only want your money.Don't be a victime of BDSM fraud.
Bad Profiles Aren't Submissive
Readable and informative personal ads can be a sign of a real desire to submit and please.
What Do You Look Like?
Do you think you have an ugly nose? Why don't you have a photo?
Writing to Dominant Women : 5 Rules
Advice for submissive men looking online for a female top, mistress, domme.
Femdom Personals on Craigslist
Responding, replying to personal ads posted on Craigslist by dominant women.
Personal Ad as Resume
How Femdom profiles and personals resemble job offers and applications.
About Your Blog
Submissive bloggers should try to present a full, comprehensive picture of themselves, just just their raw desires.
Don't Send Penis Photographs to Women
Stupid things submissive men do when looking online for a mistress or domme.
Do You Wear High Heels?
What not to say when replying to a personal ad by a female top.
Why You Never Meet Anyone
What prevents dominant women and submissive men from using the internet to date one another.
Look for Dommes Where They Can Be Met
Want a dominatrix, mistress, whatever: then focus on them and not on converting a vanilla woman.
Meeting Dominant Women Online : Best Practices
Guidance for malesubs wanting to find a Mistress using internet dating websites.
Submissive Men Who Write Bad Profiles
Male slaves who write personal ads that are confusing and unappealing to a dominant.
Start a Blog
A public space where people can learn about you is essential to the internet courtship between dominant women and submissive men.
Responding to Profiles
A clear example of what is wrong with the way men respond to the profiles of dominant women on sites like Collar Me.
Cyber Femdom : Virtual or Real?
The psychology and pitfalls of internet F/m dating and romance.
Voice Chat
Using Yahoo Messenger, Google Talk, Skype or other VOIP client to talk to dominants and submissive persons via the internet.
A Strategy
Using the web to meet potential dominant and submissive partners, lovers and companions.
Dominance & Submission in a Vacuum
Don't worry about titles and honorifics when first communicating with a potential partner.
Responding to a F/m Personal Ad
Classified Domme / malesub ads: read carefully, respond clearly and honestly.
Some Fetish Dating Sites
Brief reviews of BDSM websites for valentines day.
Forums for Dominant Women, Submissive Men
Get to know and become friendly with F/m folks using internet discussion groups.
Priorities in Communicating
Your body statistics are probably not the first thing a dominant wants to read about when you email her.
Kind Rejections
How does a dominant woman politely let a man know that he's not the guy for her?
Do You Ask Her?
When writing to a dominant woman do you ask her about her life, how her day has been?
Make a Good First Impression
Think clearly and hard before contacing a Domme whose profile you've read and liked.
Again: How to Meet a Domme
Learn to think clearly and honestly about what dominant women are looking for in submissive men.
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