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Having been a part of a pre-AIDS subculture where a boy might jump in your lap and thrust his tongue down your throat as a way of saying hello I enjoyed casual sex. For a time. Then I grew weary of it.

While I’ve summarized this to a degree elsewhere I’ll off this as advice of sorts for those seeking both companionship and kink.

Make sure you have at least one long and thorough profile that is visible on the web. Sum up yourself as best you can concisely but thoroughly. My first site - hosted by my ISP - was about eight or ten pages, divided by theme. None of the pages were long but they gave you a good overview of Richard, including his sexuality.

The web is terribly fragmented. Whatever sites you have a profile or personal on the Right Person Near You may be on other sites. I had an ad and or profile on every site I could find several years ago. I even joined AOL just so I could post profiles.

Create a page about yourself on every website available from Facebook to Joe’s BDSM Personals. It takes time but this approach does begin to eventually get results. When I met my lover prior to Alexandra I found myself having to say goodbye to a surprising number of worthwhile people I’d started talking with. (And I did meet people in person.)

And participate on forums. I was active on a local Yahoo Group years ago. A dominant woman liked what I wrote. Our emails turned into phone calls and she eventually came to visit me. And gave me my first experience of being tied up and lightly tormented by a woman.

It did not lead to a relationship. But we had a good time and I was exceedingly grateful.

This probably sounds like lots of tedious work. It is.

How badly do you want to meet someone?

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