Approaching a Dominant

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Mistress Sky has a list of questions to ask yourself before approaching a dominant of which I’ll quote just a couple:

Are you really capable of putting someone’s needs before every single one of yours? - That’s what true submission is, you know. You have to want to do anything and everything, wherever you are, whenever it’s asked of you, to please your chosen Dom/me. They must always come first. Whatever they ask of you, you must do without question…. could you do that?

If, despite all the above, you still feel that it’s for you, you must approach your chosen Dom/me with utter RESPECT. Manners are very important - they show intelligence and sincerity aswell. If you are answering an advert, then answer it properly: Address each point. Be yourself. Above all, be HONEST. If you lie, you’ll defeat the object.

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“Are you really capable of putting someone’s needs before every single one of yours? - That’s what true submission is, you know. You have to want to do anything and everything, wherever you are, whenever it’s asked of you, to please your chosen Dom/me. They must always come first. Whatever they ask of you, you must do without question…. could you do that?” Actually, that’s slavery. Most subs I know are not slaves; TPE isn’t for everyone. What matters is two people finding a balance of d/s that is right for them, not trying to live up to a random domme’s definition of what submission means to her. Besides, it’s unrealistic to think that the sub will be “on” all the time when the domme isn’t. I do agree completely with her comments about being honest and respectful though. M. Matisse addressed the “true submission” issue rather well in a recent column(http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/Content?oid=84798) (this was a two-part column; the second part was where she talked about this.)

Wow, I was browsing and came across your blog. I am looking forward to reading more. My pet and I were just discussing the subject of the mistakes subs make when searching for a Domme. I will be delighted to direct others to this blog. Thank you.

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