Kind Rejections
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He’s not a bad guy but not the man you are looking for. How do you kindly reject a submissive male?
I’ve just started dating (if that’s the word) submissives again, and I seem to have forgotten how to say “No, thank you” gracefully. In most cases, the person wants to know why I’m not interested and I’m not sure what to say. Most seem to assume it’s because they aren’t submissive enough, but it’s really because they aren’t funny or bright or interesting to be with outside the roles. Obviously, I don’t want to say (and they don’t want to hear), “You’re a great sub, but you’re kind of boring and dumb as a human being.” Any suggestions? I’m getting tired of saying “It’s not you, it’s me. I guess I’m just not ready.”
