Look for Dommes Where They Can Be Met
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While I’d not suggest you avoid the company of women that you like I would certainly assert that you shouldn’t fool yourself. Save yourself - and her - the disappointment.
Women who enjoy dominating and hurting (in a good way) men come in all formats and superficial types: physical appearance and surface personality.
Covert femdom dating is a vain and foolish pursuit.
Use BDSM dating sites. Learn about nearby munch groups. See if you are lucky enough to live in an area that has fetish clubs or at least places that host fetish parties. Don’t invest much time in trying to meet a domme at Starbucks or in the grocery store checkout lane.
Seek female tops where they advertise and are to be found.
