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Femdom Personals on Craigslist

Responding, replying to personal ads posted on Craigslist by dominant women.

May 21, 2008

Personal Ad as Resume

How Femdom profiles and personals resemble job offers and applications.

April 20, 2008

About Your Blog

Submissive bloggers should try to present a full, comprehensive picture of themselves, just just their raw desires.

January 30, 2008

Don't Send Penis Photographs to Women

Stupid things submissive men do when looking online for a mistress or domme.

January 29, 2008

Do You Wear High Heels?

What not to say when replying to a personal ad by a female top.

January 23, 2008

Why You Never Meet Anyone

What prevents dominant women and submissive men from using the internet to date one another.

January 13, 2008

Look for Dommes Where They Can Be Met

Want a dominatrix, mistress, whatever: then focus on them and not on converting a vanilla woman.

December 31, 2007

Meeting Dominant Women Online : Best Practices

Guidance for malesubs wanting to find a Mistress using internet dating websites.

December 25, 2007

Submissive Men Who Write Bad Profiles

Male slaves who write personal ads that are confusing and unappealing to a dominant.

December 9, 2007

Start a Blog

A public space where people can learn about you is essential to the internet courtship between dominant women and submissive men.

August 28, 2007

Responding to Profiles

A clear example of what is wrong with the way men respond to the profiles of dominant women on sites like Collar Me.

August 22, 2007

Cyber Femdom : Virtual or Real?

The psychology and pitfalls of internet F/m dating and romance.

August 20, 2007

Voice Chat

Using Yahoo Messenger, Google Talk, Skype or other VOIP client to talk to dominants and submissive persons via the internet.

July 10, 2007

A Strategy

Using the web to meet potential dominant and submissive partners, lovers and companions.

June 25, 2007

Dominance & Submission in a Vacuum

Don't worry about titles and honorifics when first communicating with a potential partner.

February 24, 2007

Responding to a F/m Personal Ad

Classified Domme / malesub ads: read carefully, respond clearly and honestly.

February 19, 2007

Some Fetish Dating Sites

Brief reviews of BDSM websites for valentines day.

February 2, 2007

Forums for Dominant Women, Submissive Men

Get to know and become friendly with F/m folks using internet discussion groups.

December 28, 2006

How to Write a Kinky Personal Ad

Tips and advice on what to not put into a BDSM personal ad when searching for the right Domme.

December 16, 2006

Fetishist vs. Submissive : Muddy Thinking?

The distinction between someone who wants to be a slave and is just wanting his fetishes acted out isn't simple or easy.

December 8, 2006

Human to Human : People Aren't Fantasies

Dominant women aren't going to be seduced by your fantasies. They are people looking to meet a person.

December 3, 2006

Priorities in Communicating

Your body statistics are probably not the first thing a dominant wants to read about when you email her.

October 18, 2006

Approaching a Dominant

As a submissive person are you sure what you can offer a Domme and do your needs match hers?

October 3, 2006

Femdom Chat Etiquette

Good manners when talking to a dominant woman using an instant messaging or chat client.

September 17, 2006

Kind Rejections

How does a dominant woman politely let a man know that he's not the guy for her?

September 14, 2006

Do You Ask Her?

When writing to a dominant woman do you ask her about her life, how her day has been?

September 10, 2006

How Ms. MacComb Met Her Husband

How one dominant woman found the right man using the web.

August 31, 2006

How Do I Meet a Domme

Lady Julia's advice on how a male submissive might compose his personal ad.

August 24, 2006

Make a Good First Impression

Think clearly and hard before contacing a Domme whose profile you've read and liked.

Again: How to Meet a Domme

Learn to think clearly and honestly about what dominant women are looking for in submissive men.

Wooing a Domme Online

Tips for approaching dominant women on forums and alternative dating sites.

Courtship of the Dominant Woman

Getting to know her and learning how to approach her.

August 13, 2006