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Many people start blogs I suspect with hope that it will aid them in finding someone. Certainly submissive men do; some craft appealing portraits of themselves. I think they could do better.

That you want a dominant person in your life is a given. And you’ll writing of your feelings about power exchange, the kind of person you hope to meet, what you think you can offer as a submissive partner.

But you shouldn’t write exclusively of these things if your blog is meant to complement your BDSM personal ads and kink profiles.

If you are a submissive male blogging with an eye toward attracting the attention of a local dominant female then write about more than D/s. In her mind is likely the image of a guy who does more than serve and receive spankings.

Write about your:

  • Enthusiasms
  • Hobbies
  • Pastimes
  • Books you read
  • Music you enjoy
  • Your family
  • Work

Present a comprehensive picture so she has a chance to get to know you and - with luck - find you interesting.

How do you feel?

Feel free to share your feelings about About Your Blog. Please stick to the theme of the entry. Disagreement is fine. Homophobia, racism, and kindred expressions of hatred will be deleted. This site is one of my hobbies. I genuinely enjoy hearing from people and hate moderating or killing comments. Forthright disagreement is fine as long as it is civil.
My thanks,
Richard