Start a Blog
• Online
If you are wanting to meet someone for erotic power exchange you should start a blog. Go to livejournal.com, wordpress.com or blogger.com and create a free blog. Unless you are foolishly indiscreet and use your real name you need not fear discovery. And nobody is going to try to track you down to learn your identity.
Clarity
Blogging can help you get a clearer mental picture of what you want from D/s and S&M. Try to focus on the plausible and not get lost in your fantasies. (This is typically a bigger problem for men than women.)
The more clearly you can express your needs the more likely you are to find someone interested in helping you realize them.
Conversation
Others will read your blog and leave comments. There may be a few silly fools but you’ll also hear from men and women with experience in BDSM, RACK, FLR, LFA - choose your favorite acronym.
Community
And you should read some of the better blogs on female domination. Getting to know others similar to yourself - at least to some degree - can help you feel less alone. And help combat feelings of being unhealthy if you are subject to those.
