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Compliment Her Craft

Praise of her skills is a good way to introduce yourself to a female top at a fetish club or play party.

May 6, 2008

Saying Hello

Teach yourself to meet and greet dominant women at fetish clubs or parties and much groups.

January 22, 2008

Look for Dommes Where They Can Be Met

Want a dominatrix, mistress, whatever: then focus on them and not on converting a vanilla woman.

December 31, 2007

How to Act at a Public Fetish Venue

Behavior at BDSM clubs and parties.

Personal Ads as Porn

Sexy profiles on sites like CollarMe and Alt.com may encourage the wrong kind of responses.

December 17, 2007

Who Should Say Hello First?

Should a submissive man make the initial approach when trying to meet a dominant woman?

July 27, 2007

Ordering Her Meal

Dominant women usually prefer a submissive man who knows how to handle taking charge of ordering food at restaurants.

April 24, 2007

Your First Date With a Domme

Advice on how to insure that your initial date with a dominant woman has a good chance for success or at least minimize failure.

January 8, 2007

A First Date

One Domme's first night out with a submissive male.

October 9, 2006

Being Too Passive

A dominant woman may expect some traditional courtship behaviors from the male when courting, dating.

September 24, 2006

Going to a Munch Group

Meeting Dommes and making kinky friends at munch groups.

August 30, 2006

Courting a Domme

Advice for heterosexual submissive males when attempting to date a dominant female.

August 24, 2006