Compliment Her Craft
• Real Life
Sadiste offers a good tip on introducing yourself to a female top. Compliment her craft:
In the clubs and public playspaces, signaling interest is actually pretty easy. Most regulars in the BDSM community know that complimenting a player’s technique is often a subtle (and nicely not-pushy) way of saying that you’d be interested in playing with that person… just make sure you’re not interrupting a scene to drop your compliment! You can even use this as a means to create an introduction for yourself with women you don’t know yet. This is especially great because it’s sincere flattery, which means that you’re starting a conversation with the person on a positive note.
