Personal Ads as Porn
• Real Life
I’ve sometimes said personal ads and profiles make the best porn.
That is meant as a joke. But reading a dominant writing about what they enjoy doing is arousing.
That suggests that it might be best when writing a personal ad to keep the tone more clinical and less passionate. Let your desire come through but keep the language sober and restrained.
Maybe you’ll get fewer responses that send your finger rushing to the delete key.

